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likestoflap-lol
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Sun Jun 18, 2006 11:27 pm |
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if you could relive a day or event-what would it be?
the events of holding my new born babies--hearing the cry and knowing my life would never be the same and i cried with joy! i heard the cry in hospital nursery and said thats my baby ! many years ago
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| ATA
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Sun Jun 18, 2006 11:37 pm |
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Re: if you could relive a day or event-what would it be?
| likestoflap-lol wrote: | | the events of holding my new born babies--hearing the cry and knowing my life would never be the same and i cried with joy! i heard the cry in hospital nursery and said thats my baby ! many years ago |
I would relive my wedding day and make sure i wouldn't show up at the church! 
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| BhamMom
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Sun Jun 18, 2006 11:41 pm |
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LTF,
I think any mother would say this. Unless you experience this, you have no idea what this might be. I think it is a completeness that you experience when you birth a child.
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| likestoflap-lol
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Sun Jun 18, 2006 11:50 pm |
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| BhamMom wrote: | LTF,
I think any mother would say this. Unless you experience this, you have no idea what this might be. I think it is a completeness that you experience when you birth a child. |
funny how sometimes birth and death are most remembered as days we will never forget. the day my dad died and i held his hand and whispered to him those words daddy if your heart stops mine will be broken --he was not able to communicate but i hope and pray he heard those words--happy fathers day dad-- i flew in to see him but by the time i got there he was not aware of any of us -but i spoke from my heart-if i can relive that day i would have started telling him from the moment i arrived this --i will forever have a tear for you and a smile as i will miss you !
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| pax
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 1:44 am |
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There's a day that I will never forget. It was the day my mother's mother, Phyllis, passed away. Her husband, Merle, had passed five years earlier. My mom, my mom's sister and I were with Phyllis. She said "I love you all, I'm going to see Merle now." Then she went to sleep. It was beautiful.
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| Lexy
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 1:54 am |
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The Saturday before my Dad died...I would've videotaped the time we spent reminiscing.
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| likestoflap-lol
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 12:32 pm |
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it is showing most of us would not chooose a day that had to do with material things like gee --the day i got my new home or tv. i see that family is important most to many of us. if we started a thread what day would you not want to relive i bet it would still have to do with family--divorce day -deaths --tears . i see big hearts. if we can take back words spoken or say words needed to be spoken that never weei think it would show most would wish they could reverse time too.
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| medleyrelay
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 12:50 pm |
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Oh my one stary stary night way back in Arizona - New Years Eve in fact - yes I could relive that one over and over again!! 
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| likestoflap-lol
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 1:09 pm |
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| medleyrelay wrote: | | Oh my one stary stary night way back in Arizona - New Years Eve in fact - yes I could relive that one over and over again!! |
oh yes i forgot that hot nights would be at top of list too--falling in love or being romanced is fun too
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| Hannie
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 2:06 pm |
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I would have wanted the last day I saw the LOML december 18th 2005, before I knew that he would die 4 months later, and i wouldn`t see him anymore.....
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| medleyrelay
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 4:48 pm |
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Hannie!!
| Quote: | | I would have wanted the last day I saw the LOML december 18th 2005, before I knew that he would die 4 months later, and i wouldn`t see him anymore.... |
I can totally relate -- those last moments with a loved one . . . well there really should be a way we could relive them over and over again!!
by the way as ususal great new avatar!!
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| Elaine S
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:05 pm |
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| HannieC wrote: | | I would have wanted the last day I saw the LOML december 18th 2005, before I knew that he would die 4 months later, and i wouldn`t see him anymore..... |
I can relate to that Hannie. Mine would be November 15th, 1994, the day before my husband died. I'm not sure what I'd do differently, but I'd still have one more day with my hero.
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| Katie
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:27 pm |
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I would have wanted to do over the day my 2nd sister died and have called her in the morning like I always did and not be angry with her .The thing I regret most is when I found out something was wrong, I automatically said to myself what the fuck did she do to those boys. I didn't know it was her till I got to the hospital
Yeah, I wish I could relive that day even if she had to die again, just to do it right for her and me.
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| SavannahStar
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:30 pm |
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Sad stories, Katie and Elaine. I'm so sorry for your losses. (And everyone else who has posted here about losing a loved one....Hannie, you know my prayers are always with you.)
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| medleyrelay
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:32 pm |
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Come on Savannah we want to know what day you would like to relive??
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| SavannahStar
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:34 pm |
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| medleyrelay wrote: | | Come on Savannah we want to know what day you would like to relive?? |
Oh that's easy as pie, medley....the day my son was born. No question, it was the happiest day of my life. I treasure my son and my role as a mother more than anything in the world. I am richly blessed! 
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| medleyrelay
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 5:41 pm |
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Thanks Savannah - that is such a nice post! since I have 3 sons _ I had to pick something else . . . so I went for the hot romance
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| Katie
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| SavannahStar wrote: | | Sad stories, Katie and Elaine. I'm so sorry for your losses. (And everyone else who has posted here about losing a loved one....Hannie, you know my prayers are always with you.) |
Thanks Savannah, and I agree with your other post I have three boys and 2 girls and i relive their birth everyday but I wouldn't change a thing well maybe the 32 hour labour one. J/K
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| likestoflap-lol
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 7:43 pm |
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| Katie wrote: | I would have wanted to do over the day my 2nd sister died and have called her in the morning like I always did and not be angry with her .The thing I regret most is when I found out something was wrong, I automatically said to myself what the fuck did she do to those boys. I didn't know it was her till I got to the hospital
Yeah, I wish I could relive that day even if she had to die again, just to do it right for her and me. |
katie your post brought a lump to my throat. if only --it is a song reba sings--i hope you fing peace with that day and i do believe that the spirit world does not end all. i believe thoughts are real things and she knows that you love her.if you ever dream of her she knows this. i believe dreams are a way to the other side too.
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| Elaine S
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| SavannahStar wrote: | | Sad stories, Katie and Elaine. I'm so sorry for your losses. (And everyone else who has posted here about losing a loved one....Hannie, you know my prayers are always with you.) |
Thanks Savannah.. you're a gracious and sweet lady.
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| BhamMom
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Mon Jun 19, 2006 9:42 pm |
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| medleyrelay wrote: | | Thanks Savannah - that is such a nice post! since I have 3 sons _ I had to pick something else . . . so I went for the hot romance |
Would you like two more? They're potty trained. 
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| Katie
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Wed Jun 21, 2006 9:27 pm |
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| likestoflap-lol wrote: | | Katie wrote: | I would have wanted to do over the day my 2nd sister died and have called her in the morning like I always did and not be angry with her .The thing I regret most is when I found out something was wrong, I automatically said to myself what the fuck did she do to those boys. I didn't know it was her till I got to the hospital
Yeah, I wish I could relive that day even if she had to die again, just to do it right for her and me. |
katie your post brought a lump to my throat. if only --it is a song reba sings--i hope you fing peace with that day and i do believe that the spirit world does not end all. i believe thoughts are real things and she knows that you love her.if you ever dream of her she knows this. i believe dreams are a way to the other side too. |
Thank-you likestoflap, I never really listened to reba but heard she had a show??
I know my sister forgives me but can I forgive everyone else.Too much drama to explain
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